Overcoming cravings can be as simple as erasing the physical causes (poor nutrition) of the cravings. But usually there is an emotional craving attached also. Emotional cravings are when an emotion triggers you to crave a food or feel hungry (Roger Gould calls this phantom hunger).
When we experience emotional cravings that are out of control, we need to start observing ourselves and seeing exactly what emotions are causing the triggers. Maybe we eat out of boredom. Maybe we eat because we are dissatisfied about our relationship. Cravings – emotional cravings – are telling you something. Instead of eating you need to listen.
A good start pointing when tackling this issue is to tackle our mindset first. Negativity is something many people habitually part take in. Our inner critic tells us we are not good enough and we constantly play the worse case scenario in any situation instead of weighing up all the facts.
Your weight loss outcomes can depend on many things but at the core of it all you need to believe in 3 things in order to successfully lose the battle with the bulge.
You need to believe:
- POSSIBILITY: It is possible for you to overcome cravings.
- ACHIEVEMENT: You are able to stop craving.
- WORTHINESS: You deserve to stop craving and lose weight.
Possibility
Possibility is almost always mistaken for competence. We think that something isn’t possible, that we aren’t able to give up our favorite junk foods or stop craving when really we don’t know how to do it – we don’t have the knowledge or resources to be able to stop craving.
It is possible though, regardless of your situation. You can’t prove that it isn’t possible – you can only say that you haven’t achieved it yet.
Beliefs are not fact.
Beliefs are just our best guess at something and we often sell ourselves short. Do you think you have put a mental ceiling on your achievements? Do you think you have hindered your ability to stop craving through your beliefs about yourself?
Ability
Most of us tend to make others aware of our short comings, when we can’t do something. If you take a day out and observe people and what they say, you should notice how often people say they can’t do this or they can’t do that. We all think this is being modest, when in fact its not. Modesty is not boasting about what we can do, it isn’t boasting about what we can’t!
Once you become aware of yourself voicing your inability to give up chocolate/junk/sugar, you can stop yourself voicing it. If you continue to voice your inability to give it up, it will hold you back from achieving your lifestyle/weight loss goals. If you find it difficult to stop voicing your inability, a good alternative is to add the word “yet” to the end of your statements.
“I haven’t been able to give up chocolate…yet”
“I can’t stop craving…yet”.
It is also important not to make excuses for your craving failures. If you do not have the knowledge to prevent cravings, go out and get it. Set tasks that you need to do in order to achieve your slimmer figure.
A general belief that you should try to hold is:
You have not yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.
Keeping this in mind will help you to achieve your craving and weight loss goals.
Worthiness
Do you deserve to give up junk food/lose weight? Does it make you feel uncomfortable to say you deserve to? If it does, this should help you figure out any obstacles that are in your way to achieving your goal. List them and work out how you can overcome them.
e.g. I don’t have the correct knowledge to stop my sugar addiction – to overcome this I am going to do some research and find a suitable diet program or expert to help me.
Allow yourself to believe these 3 things and you will be on the right path to a positive mindset to help yourself overcome cravings.
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